The BITCH and I

The english version of mondays post!
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HER

She is direct – more direct than I appreciate some times

She is honest – so honest that it scares me from time to time

She is confrontational – and it can get real unpleasant 

She is assertive – annoyingly assertive

She can be quite a «Besserwisser»  – and who likes them??

She will gladly engage in a discussion – and has a hard time backing down

She says what she means – and thats not always popular

She is very clear – maybe to clear for some?

She loves attention – and tend to take up to much space sometimes

She is a bit crazy

She got tonns of confidence

She is fearless

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ME

I am friendly – try to smile or say something nice to those I meet.

I am nice – as nice as I can

I am supportive – I wish to be a good friend

I am a good listener – actually listen to what people say

I try to follow this principal:

If you theres something positiv on you mind; say it out loud – If something negativ; Shut up!

I am lojal – you will always know were you got me!

I am collegial – I care about the work environment

I am a team player – love to work with others

I hate unjust – who doesn’t?

I am an antirasist – but meet myself in the door some times….

I am generous – stinginess has no place in my life

I try to be unprejudiced – it is a struggle that must be fought every day!

I care what other thinks of me

I want people to like me

I also have confidence – but maybe not as much

I am reasonable

But I am scared of the dark and I am claustrophobic

WE

We are so different

We often disagree

She tells stuff about us  – that I would like to keep a secret

She embarrasses us – and dont care

She fights – when all I want is to be friends

She says things in anger – that I dont mean

She demands her rights – When I actually am content

She speaks in big crowds – when all I want is to be quiet

She grabs attention – when I want to be invisible

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So why are we together  –  when so different?

Why have we not gone our separate ways?

Impossible

We have no choice

We are stuck with each other

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She pushes me – I put on the brakes

She get things done, sometimes to fast – I plan, pauses  and take some time

She is a daredevil and gives me wonderful experiences – I am reasonable and give her stability.

She toughens me up  – I soften her edges

She challenges me – I calm her down

We fulfill meg

We help me

We will always be there for me

She is me and I am her

But you know her best 🙂

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There is one person i MUST love and that is myself – ALL parts of me!

I am the only one I cant turn my back on

LOVE YOURSELF

OR IT WILL BE DIFFICULT FOR ANYONE ELSE TO

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Thanks for watching over us Per!

Todays post in english;

A fantastic man has passed..

He talked about dying…

He wrote about dying….

He waited on death

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But I have never known a dying man – that lived so strongly

That were  so social engaged as he was

right up to the end

that cared so much about his «herd»

all the way to his death

 

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Per Fugelli`s words of wisdom gave me hope

Gave me a renewed belief in human kindness

Gave me strength to face the difficulties in life

When he spoke people listened

Both young and old

He was like a father;

Secure

Wise

Lovingly reproving

And he cared about us

Us humans

All humans

He found the time for that

He had the surplus

while preparing for death…

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«earth to earth – ashes to ashes – dust to dust»  That was what he believed.

» Maybe I´ll return as a bluebell» he once said

If someone returns I hope it is him

The world need people like Per Fugelli

The world is poorer without him

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Here is som of my favorite quotes of Per Fugelli:

«Dont be a singel nr 1 – care about your herd»

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«The recipe for a good life is to sometimes not give a damn»

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«We are all born with a self worth that no one should mess with» 

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«Life isn’t  perfect, without errors or misshaps.  We have to accept our selves  and each other as damage goods»

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«A good recipe for life  is to not put your goals for body, lifestyle, relationships and career so far up that you will never reach them.»

 

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Thank you so much for caring about your «herd»!

You will be missed by so many more than your nearest!

Rest in Peace

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STUPID IS WHAT STUPID DOES!!

Todays post in English:

A  fabulous  movie!

Fantastic actors!

And what a story!

You have of course seen it!

Who hasn’t ?

(If you haven’t –  you have to  – right away!)

I have never met anyone who didnt like it!

It is my all time favorite!

Of course I am talking about:

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One of the things I find so genius about the movie is all the quotes. Here is my favorites:

  1. “My mama always said, ‘Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.’”

So true….but with a bit experience  you know what pieces to pick and wich one to leave behind…

2. “My Mama always said you’ve got to put the past behind you before you can move on.”

A good advise – the past is just experiences that can not be changed – but used to make the future better…

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3. “Mama always said, dying was a part of life. I sure wish it wasn’t.”

We can all agree on that can’t we? 🙂

4. Bubba: «My given name is Benjamin Buford Blue, but people call me Bubba. Just like one of them ol’ redneck boys. Can you believe that?» Forrest: «My name’s Forrest Gump. People call me Forrest Gump.»

The simple is often the best 🙂 I love those lovely conversations between Bubba and Forrest 🙂

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5. “Lieutenant Dan got me invested in some kind of fruit company [Apple computer]. So then I got a call from him, saying we don’t have to worry about money no more. And I said, that’s good! One less thing.”

I WISH!!!

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6. Forrest: «What’s my destiny, Mama?»
Mrs. Gump: «You’re gonna have to figure that out for yourself.»

Yes we all have to do that – decide which direction our life should go in….I choose the positive one…

7.  “Run, Forrest! Run!” 

Never wrong to run 🙂 It is healthy, good for your body, your heart….and not least it is a good way to escape trouble .

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I WISH YOU ALL A WONDERFUL WEEKEND – MAYBE WITH A GOOD MOVIE??

I will celebrate a good friends 50th birthday….

food, good friends, music and dance..

there will be som alcohol as well….hopefully not as much, that Forrest would say:

STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES!!!!!!

 

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«If you dont like it – GET OUT!»

Todays post in english.

Some of my favorite quotes;

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«Those who have both feet on the ground – aren’t going anywhere»

Tor Åge Bringsværd

 

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“Who are you to judge the life I live?
I know I’m not perfect
-and I don’t live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers…
make sure you hands are clean!”

Bob Marley

 

på hender på zanzibar“Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.”

Allen Saunders

 

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«Our prime purpose in life is to help others – And if you can’t help them, at least dont hurt them»

Dalai Lama

 

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«The mind is like a parachute – only function when open»

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kajakk i solnedgang«You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.

Dr. Seuss

 

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«Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible»

Dalai Lama

 

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«If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito.»

Dalai Lama

 

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«If you dont like it – GET OUT!»

Janecke Engeberg

 

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«Life

my grandmother said.

Life girl,

isn’t  just orgasms,

there is the fucking as well»

Ella Utøy

«If you dont like it – GET OUT»

Det er mange gode sitater og mange av dem minner oss på hva som er viktig her i livet – her er noen av mine favoritter:

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«Den som har begge bena plantet på jorden, står stille.»

Tor Åge Bringsværd

 

bergen by night

“Who are you to judge the life I live?
I know I’m not perfect
-and I don’t live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers…
make sure you hands are clean!”

Bob Marley

 

på hender på zanzibar“Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.”

Allen Saunders

 

bolten

«Our prime purpose in life is to help others – And if you can’t help them, at least dont hurt them»

Dalai Lama

 

jeg flyr

«The mind is like parachutes – they only function when open»

ukjent

kajakk i solnedgang«You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.

Dr. Seuss

 

 

meg og juni

«Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible»

Dalai Lama

 

pi over hodet

«If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito.»

Dalai Lama

 

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«If you dont like it – GET OUT!»

Janecke Engeberg

 

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«Livet, sa ho bestemor, livet jenta mi , er nok ikkje berre orgasme – det ska knullast òg»

Ella Utøy